This article is one every single should read and memorize. It's so hard to see the big picture immediately after a break up. We've all been there, too. You're hurt, angry, and slightly apprehensive about the future. Sometimes you wonder if you've been too picky. Other times you question the other things you think you could have done differently.

But breakups are the wakeup call you need to let you know that you're just not meant to be with that person, and it doesn't matter what you do. You don't need to lose weight to be with someone. You don't need to change your hair, become "more interesting," or develop new hobbies. You just need to be yourself.

Still, when you break up with someone you really liked, it can make you feel as if you should have done something different. But remember, a break up is only a sign that you have someone else out there in the world waiting to meet the exact person you are at heart. The real you.