Learning how to be an expert dater can come from any area of life. You can learn about how to present yourself on a first date by following the principles you would a job interview, for example. Dress well, speak intelligently, and be on time are all things that could apply to an interview or a first date.

But is there a "zen" to dating? Are there lessons to be learned from the principles of kung fu, for instance?

You bet. MSN had a nice article on the things you could learn, and I have to say the first lesson ("Practice Makes Perfect") is one of the best. After all, what better way to be a successful dater than by actually going on dates?

It might sound simple, but the reality is many daters want to go on a date and meet the guy or girl of their dreams in the space of a few outings. It takes time. It takes practice. You can't expect to be fresh on the dating scene and make the best impression. It stands to reason that you'll be nervous or shy. The more you do it, the more relaxed you'll be.

And while it may sound daunting to have to go on "a lot" of dates, remember that the more you do it, the better able you are to recognize the right one when you meet him or her.