We've been talking lately at The Dating Weblog about getting dumped. As if it isn't bad enough when it happens, there are times when you might even wonder "what happened?" If things seemed to be going along fine, or if you thought you'd at least work it out, why then does the other person just want out?

More than that, why does someone just stop calling? I'll admit I've been dumped this way, and wanted to tell the guy, "Why didn't you just tell me you weren't interested anymore? I'm not a baby, I can take the truth."

But it seems that some guys and girls would rather go for the "stop calling" route instead of just being honest in the first place.

Well, there's a new website that may be able to help. Why Was I Dissed is a website where both the dumper and dumpee can log on and give their side of what happened.

Here's how it works. The person who got dumped can log in and submit the "offender's" name and email info. Why Was I Dissed contacts the dumper with questions they can then pass along to the dumpee as to what went wrong.

Users can sign on and get their answers for free, or if they want to talk to the "relationship doctor," they can schedule a chat with licensed psychologist Dr. Craig starting at $4.95.

The theory behind this is that Why Was I Dissed is a third party where both people can speak freely about what happened. The process is meant to provide closure.

Let's start a discussion on this. Is this something you'd be interested in? Would it give you the answers you need? Will it encourage people to be more straightforward when ending a relationship? What are your thoughts?

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