Are you in a long distance relationship (LDR) that requires plane flights every month or so to see each other? There's nothing wrong with an LDR but it begs the question... what are you working toward as a couple?

Ultimately, if the relationship will last and go the distance, you'll need to eliminate the distance between you. Otherwise, why are you battling through an LDR in the first place.

So if you're struggling emotionally to make an LDR work, ask yourself if there's a gameplan for ultimately living in the same city.