Focus on Giving
Saturday, 18. November 2006 - 7:28 am
It's so easy in a relationship, particularly early on, to focus on the question "what's in it for me?" But at some point you've got to turn the tables and Start asking yourself "how am I giving to the other person?"
If both people focus on giving 100% to the other then both parties will be giving and getting 100% out of the relationship. When you start thinking from a selfish perspective, that's when relationships break down.
So the next time you want to call your partner out on something, instead ask yourself if there's something your partner has a right to be upset about too.