If you're serious with someone and contemplating engagement and marriage, take the time to get to know the family. This is not for the purpose of discovering a difficult uncle that gives you second thoughts on the relationship.

Instead, get to know the family because they'll be in-laws Someday. Think how much better the engagement period will go when the family knows you, loves you, and supports the union.

So get to know your future family now so they'll be onboard with your future together. It will make the run-up to that wedding that much smoother.