Even the healthiest relationship will hit some bumps in the road. You'll annoy each other, or get frustrated by those pet peeves. When these moments hit, it's easy to put up your defenses and get ready for a battle.

But remember, you're in a relationship and care about each other. If you can hold hands during the fight it will keep things civilized and just might remind you why you fell in love in the first place.

So the next time things get a bit heated, reach out and touch your partner's hand. Pretty soon things will get back to neutral.