"You meet someone, settle down, get married, and have kids." If you're a swinging single you hear this all the time. Sometimes the pressure can be overwhelming to conform to societal norms and get married.

Never forget that the ultimate goal does not have to be marriage and kids. Some people are perfectly happy dating casually their entire lives or dating monogamously, but without walking down the asile.

So get to know your dating goals first and you'll be on your way to reaching those goals... regardless of what other people think.