society will tell you that first comes dating, then comes engagement, then marriage, and finally kids. But what if you get pregnant first?

Just because things happen in the wrong order it doesn't mean the relationship is destined for failure. Just be sure you're talking about the steps you've missed.

The last thing you want is to have a kid and think you'll be walking down the aisle soon, only to find out your partner has no intention of ever saying "I do!"