Should I call today? What message does it send if I wait a few days? What should I say when I call? Should I play it cool or act interested? Maybe I should email instead of call?

Is it me or is there way too much anxiety over phone calls in the early parts of relationships. Most of the stuff we worry about is only in our head anyway. The person on the other end of the relationship has their own set of worries and fears.

I'm a big believer of playing it straight and honest. Keep the games out. Sure, there will always be players and game lovers who rebuff the straight up approach. But when the right person comes along, trust me, they'll appreciate your honest and direct approach.