Signs Of A Good Match With Your Date

Filed in archive Dating Issues , First Dates on July 19, 2010

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If you are dating someone new, here are a few things that may tell you that things are going really well between the two of you:

1. You find out small weird things you have in common. You find that your tastes or habits jibe in more surprising ways. This isn't to say that you have the same favorite books or songs. It's when you find more uncommon and surprising your similarities you have with each other that indicates things are going better. Maybe you both belt out what you are doing in song or you both like sitting in your car when it rains.

2. Talking about the future doesn't make you flinch. When you get to the point when you're planning summer vacations for next year instead of where to go next week, then you must have a good match with your date.

3. It's important that your friends like your date. Nope, it's not whether your parents like him or her that counts a lot. It whether your friends find your date good company to be with that matters the most. You know you can't choose your family, so whoever you date will just have to adjust to that fact, but you can choose your friends. And how you choose your friends definitely reflects on you, in the same way how you choose your dates also will. Now if things don't click between you and your partner after the second or date, you most likely will not even try to introduce your friends to him or her.

4. You think of yourselves as a couple even during tough times. This is clearly a sign that you see you and your partner as a single item now. You stop asking your partner what he or she is doing next Saturday night but rather you start asking about what the two of you will be doing next Saturday night. And then when your boss asks you to go on a business trip, you think whether it might fit into your partner's schedule to go with you as well. And when you tell about a problem between the two of you to your friends, you start referring to "our car" instead of "his" or "her" car.

5. You come across things you want to share. You walk down the street and you trip over some funny story to tell later. It means that while you may not realize you're thinking about your date, you are and just can't help it.