It's so easy to feel insecure between the sheets, especially in a new relationship. You wonder if you're pleasing your partner... you feel awkward about telling them what you want in bed.

Often, all this anxiety is being felt by your partner too, and neither of you has the courage to kick off the conversation. You can make this melt away by finding the courage to open the dialog and connect.

It might feel strange at first, but soon your partner will be thanking you for talking first and beginning the conversation.