When You Really Should Call It Quits With Your Ex

Filed in archive Break Ups , Dating Issues on July 20, 2010

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Sometimes, we think that we broke off with an ex for very flimsy reasons. So when the opportunity arises, we're quick about getting back together to give it another try.

But there are times when it's really time to say goodbye to the relationship. When? Well, experts say you should really call it quits if you see some of the following going in your relationship:

1. He becomes annoying.

Small things he does that you thought were cute at one point now begin to irritate you. They don't look child-like to you anymore, rather they seem childish.

2. You fight about the same things.

When you reconcile, you should already know there are some things you don't like about your ex that you should be willing to accept. If you can't get over the fact that he gets so sloppy when he is drunk, then it is really not a good thing to get back with him.

3. There is no physical attraction.

If you're not attracted to your ex anymore, then don't even think about getting back together.

4. You are thinking about other options.

The history you share with your ex should be enough to make you go back. If he has to compete with other options presenting themselves, that means you're not as interested in your ex as you once were.

5. There is a really big issue between the two of you.

If love can't conquer all between you and your ex, nothing else will.

6. You have really been unhappy with your ex.

Even if this happened only once during your previous relationship with him, you should be able to get over it before you even think about moving back with him.