This is a guest post from the blog, Dating Advice from a Girl. Some very smart advice. Check it out:

Do you ever notice a guy just because he notices you first? When I was in college, I realized this truth: Sometimes, women start liking men, simply because they like the feeling of being desired by a man. Don't get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with liking a man who liked you first, but the problem occurs when a woman cannot look past that, and see whether or not that man is actually worthy of her affection. Sometimes women blame men for being jerks later on, saying they were "smooth talkers." These women's ears ring at the beginning of their relationship from all the flattery that a man bestows.

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